The idea of friendship seems to be a certain bond that it is shared between individuals that have interpersonal forms of communication. They tend to recognize that their emotions are mutually assured due to past experiences; The past meaning the individual sand particle that drops from the hourglass. Sharing vibes as they now like to call it, is having more than just a conversation, but it is the exchange individual's emotions and memories. Exchange for one's time for another's time is the ultimate respect you can give to someone. Why let that negative person take your time away from the many possibilities that exist? You shared a destructive past with this individual, learn from it, continue to progress forward. The sand will collect at the end of the hourglass and have to be flipped once more.
Building friendships is one the most sacred things about life. The union of individuals driven by an idea, motivated by each other, building one another, are some of the many outcomes that can occur from a strong bond. The bond is built not only built by compatibility, but is by helping that individual grow. Giving back to your friends and those around ultimately form an exchange that happens within in their mind, that allows you to build these beautiful strong connections that exist in nature. We can think how packs of animals hunt better together, how colonies of ants can make marvelous structures, how the cells in our boy multiple in unionship; Each share synchronicity. Synchronicity exist within in a society or in a group when things appear to the whole as the right the thing to do, could be animalistic, humanistic, or rational based forms of bonds that occur.
Depending on the type of bond being shared you can either move in two ways, one, building a stronger bond with this individual or group, or two, stop exchanging your time with these individuals. You already know which individuals in your life you need to stop exchanging with. You also know what individuals you need to build stronger relationships with; To help each other out for mutual exchanges for the greater good. If you decide to build a stronger relationship with that person, due so with the purest form of your being, you should not have to shroud your true self with the mask and cape you put on for the rest of the world. This lets you first of be comfortable with yourself, but with the other individuals, and if they condemn you from this, stop the exchange of time you have with these individuals. By being yourself this lets others have the chance to share their ideas of a number of stuff, furthering the bond of exchangement between the individuals.
Now, let's say you take the second path, depending on the severity of the damaging relationship, you must eliminate contact with this person.Obviously will think about this person, but just remember the harmful things they have done, and the stuff that you didn't deserve, use this as fuel to drive better forms of bonds between the right people and use it to progress yourself. It's tough to say that life is cruel sometimes - you have things happen to you that no human should experience here on earth and it is usually done by the ones you love most. Do not let this discourage you, this only but a fraction of your life that your experiencing, use it to empower you physically and most importantly mentally.When the hourglass finally breaks the only thing that mattered was how strong the sand was able to stick together.
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