It's never too late!

It is never too late to pick yourself back up! Keep pushing for the goals and the self-image you are destined for!  Make a mission out of life. Never give yourself up to those inhibitions that make you have fear. Is this the life you wanted? Are you satisfied with your current situation? If not quit the things that inhibit you and find other things that help your mission.

That was a little something that I was thinking about tonight, I know it's short compared to the other post, but I hope you were able to get pumped by it. 

It has been some time since I wrote a blog post. In that time, things have changed for the best. I want to continue to write for this blog like I used to. For anyone out there still visiting this blog, thank you for your patience and support. I want to write every day so that I may be able to motivate, enlighten, and inform you. 

Until next time, 

Wholeness and balance!

Release

A person is constantly being tested during each situation. The ups and downs either create personal development of oneself or, the personal fears created by the individual. The observer is free to choose which one dominates one's mind. One cannot change the nature of life, and must deal with the actions one takes and the actions that the universe takes. We must understand that life is constantly changing, but if you have fear you won't like change. Life around you is constantly in your comfort zone. In this zone you do not have fear. Fear is something that we create internally. We constantly attempt to manipulate life to live in the comfort zone.

Fear is is produced in some people, because they are afraid of the outcome of the situation. Take the action you have been constantly thinking about. Fear is preventing you from reaching your true potential. When people are tested out of their comfort zone, they act nervously or try to run away from the situation. You must strike the barrier in your mind with your will and just act. You have everything to lose, and everything to gain. It is up to you to choose the path you take. Fear is constantly provoking you to take situations that you shouldn't. You fall victim to your fear, however, you must slay the fear inside your mind by being aware of the life around you. You must release to achieve your true potential. 

Emotions and Conversations

The most potent stories come from an individual who first slows down and takes ownership of their actions. People often have the problem of slowing down when taking. To slow down the fast pace talking and the release of the adrenaline, make sure you ground yourself consecutively. You must analyze the current situation you're in. Then after, you must get figure out why you're doing it. Essentially you wanna ask critical questions such as, what is the current emotion that I'm feeling?, why did these emotions make me act this way?,  what evidence do I have to behave this way? Process this information externally and internally. 

It is important to be aware of your behavior, if you are constantly questioning your motives, thoughts, or other people's, you will get no where. Being aware must come deep within your heart. If you keep on giving excuses for negatives actions, you will not see the need to change. If you constantly blame other people for the faults that you create, you will not feel obligated to take a different approach to analyzing the situation that you are currently in. Consider yourself being silent or turning towards anger when you are talking to someone about a hot topic. You must act as if you are being televised to the world. You must think about how people would view your behavior, actions, words, and motives. People who master crucial conversations are aware that they are beginning to slip into some unattended emotions, but they are easily able to admit it. Therefore, it is easier to take the right actions the movement they realize that they are killing the conversation. 

Getting in touch with your feelings is a necessary skill to master conversation. You must be enthusiastic. You must connect with your heart. Explore the feelings inside of you. People commonly say, "I'm okay", when being asked how are you. Most people are emotionally illiterate, meaning it is hard for them to describe all the feelings that encompass our bodies. Sometimes they are not descriptive enough. For example when someone is usually mad, they say "I'm mad!", when in all reality, they could very well be embarrassed and shocked. You may ask yourself, why is this important, well it is significant to accurately describe your feelings, to lead to better outcome of situations. The people around you will better understand how you are feeling. In order to get in touch with your feelings you must expand your emotional vocabulary. You must have emotional control in the conversation. You have to challenge yourself to say that these emotions are not the right emotion for the circumstance. Break the illusion that the emotions created and be free to express your ideas accurately and effectively.  

Friendship

The idea of friendship seems to be a certain bond that it is shared between individuals that have interpersonal forms of communication. They tend to recognize that their emotions are mutually assured due to past experiences; The past meaning the individual sand particle that drops from the hourglass. Sharing vibes as they now like to call it, is having more than just a conversation, but it is the exchange individual's emotions and memories. Exchange for one's time for another's time is the ultimate respect you can give to someone. Why let that negative person take your time away from the many possibilities that exist? You shared a destructive past with this individual, learn from it, continue to progress forward. The sand will collect at the end of the hourglass and have to be flipped once more.

Building friendships is one the most sacred things about life. The union of individuals driven by an idea, motivated by each other, building one another, are some of the many outcomes that can occur from a strong bond. The bond is built not only built by compatibility, but is by helping that individual grow. Giving back to your friends and those around ultimately form an exchange that happens within in their mind, that allows you to build these beautiful strong connections that exist in nature. We can think how packs of animals hunt better together, how colonies of ants can make marvelous structures, how the cells in our boy multiple in unionship; Each share synchronicity. Synchronicity exist within in a society or in a group when things appear to the whole as the right the thing to do, could be animalistic, humanistic, or rational based forms of bonds that occur.

Depending on the type of bond being shared you can either move in two ways, one, building a stronger bond with this individual or group, or two, stop exchanging your time with these individuals. You already know which individuals in your life you need to stop exchanging with. You also know what individuals you need to build stronger relationships with; To help each other out for mutual exchanges for the greater good. If you decide to build a stronger relationship with that person, due so with the purest form of your being, you should not have to shroud your true self with the mask and cape you put on for the rest of the world. This lets you first of be comfortable with yourself, but with the other individuals, and if they condemn you from this, stop the exchange of time you have with these individuals. By being yourself this lets others have the chance to share their ideas of a number of stuff, furthering the bond of exchangement between the individuals.

Now, let's say you take the second path, depending on the severity of the damaging relationship, you must eliminate contact with this person.Obviously will think about this person, but just remember the harmful things they have done, and the stuff that you didn't deserve, use this as fuel to drive better forms of bonds between the right people and use it to progress yourself. It's tough to say that life is cruel sometimes - you have things happen to you that no human should experience here on earth and it is usually done by the ones you love most. Do not let this discourage you, this only but a fraction of your life that your experiencing, use it to empower you physically and most importantly mentally.When the hourglass finally breaks the only thing that mattered was how strong the sand was able to stick together.